Free sex dating is one of those things that pack a lot of promise. There’s a lot of things to like about free sex dating. I mean, after all, when you go on this type of dating, you are dealing with the two most powerful words in the English language, bar none.
If you don’t believe me, when somebody says the word “free” to you, don’t you get excited? At the very least, don’t you get a little bit moist? If you’re a guy, don’t you get a little bit hard? I do.
When somebody says, “dude, we’re having a free buffet at my work,” you don’t have to ask me twice. I’m fucking gone. The moment that person says that sentence, before they were even able to put the dot or the period at the end of the sentence, my mind has been set. I’m going to be there. If somebody says, “dude, we have a free concert,” I’m fucking there. So “free” is this magical word.
Now the only thing that fucks up “free” is when it turns out not to be free. Like for example, this hot chick at my office, Karen, tells me, “we’re going to have a free lingerie show at my place. Guys are welcome.” So again, you don’t need to ask me twice. I fucking show up there and, guess what? It’s all about fucking insurance and talking about timeshare and other multilevel marketing bullshit.
So please, man, if you use the word “free,” keep it free. Don’t make shit with it because I hate that shit, you know, that free marketing bullshit. So anyway, the next component of that phrase “free sex dating” is “sex.”
You probably don’t need this to be explained to you that “sex” is a very powerful word. Something may be fucking bland, pointless and worthless, but if you throw in sex in there, it becomes sexy, vibrant and definitely worth having.
So when you put these two words together at a dating site, you can’t help but get excited and that’s exactly the mindset I was in. I was like, okay, there’s this free sex dating site, I’m going to get the action that I’m looking for. Bring it the fuck on.
Well, it didn’t turn out that way because my bootycall online experience wasn’t that hot at first. I thought that if I just filled out a profile, then all of a sudden all these chicks from all over the world would want to suck my dick.
I’m very big in Asian girls. I’m particularly partial to Filipina girls. There are many different types of Filipina girls. There are some Filipina girls that look Chinese, there are some Filipina girls that look very dark and Indonesian, there are some Filipina girls that look Hawaiian.
That’s what I love about Filipinas, I mean, they are very diverse. One day is not the same as the previous day. Believe me, I can stick my dick into as many of them as possible and not get bored. As long as they’re down for some white dick, I’m down to give them the piece of vanilla that they’re looking for.
So, I joined a free sex dating site and sure enough, there were a lot of Filipina profiles there and I spent all of 5 minutes putting my profile together and I thought all these Filipina chicks would fucking get on me, at least digitally. It didn’t happen. What the fuck?
I was saying to myself, “How can this happen? I mean, like on Tinder, when I fucking go in, there are all these positive hits.” Well, as you can probably tell, I’m a clueless motherfucker because on Tinder, when you get positive hits, 99% of those are robots. They’re not real women. They’re spammers trying to get you to click a link so they can make money.
And when I joined this free sex dating site, all the fucking expectations that I had were shaped by my experience with mobile dating apps. As you can tell, I was jerking off in loneliness for a long time and I had nobody to blame but myself.
So how did things change? Well, they changed when I changed my attitude. I looked at free sex dating not as a slam dunk. I refused to believe the hype. I weaned myself off the hype. Instead, I looked at it as something that you have to put in the work for.
Now, that’s a bad mindset, in and of itself. Because looking to get laid and treating it like a job is a sure fire way to not get laid. You see, women can smell desperation a mile away. If they think that you’re just there to try to fuck as many chicks as possible and you really don’t care what they look like, they’re going to steer clear of you.
They want a guy who at least would want to fuck them because he actually wants to fuck them. In other words, there’s actual interest there. They don’t want to fuck a guy who’s operating like has some sort of quota to fill.
So I learned this lesson by basically resolving to have a good time. And how do you have a good time at a dating site? Allow yourself to be curious. That’s right. Learn as much about other people. Truly be interested in who they are and what they are about. When I changed my mindset, that’s when free sex dating delivered.
I still cannot forget my first date. My first date was Selma. She was, as you guessed it, Filipina and she had a nice, round ass, beautiful dark brown skin, an amazing face, like an angel and beautiful, straight, jet black hair. This woman had almond shaped, deep brown eyes and when I looked at her, she embodied to me the beauty and the promise of the tropics. What’s not to love?
My first booty call online experience truly delivered because it was no strings attached, emotion free sex that was, at the same time, really hot and intense. I mean, how intense was it? I mean, she was making me fucking cum like a machine gun. I was just shooting load after load up in that tight Filipina twat. It’s just amazing.
Imagine 10 inches of white cock up in deep, dark brown Filipina pussy. It’s the picture of erotic bliss. I was just pumping away like a jack rabbit and she was appreciating every stroke, every thrust, and although she was thoroughly Americanized, she still had the promise of the tropics. It was really amazing.
So if you want to have the same amazing bootycall online experience, do what I did. Stop expecting that you are entitled to some results. You’re not. The world doesn’t operate that way. Nobody owes you shit.
Second, have a good time by actually practicing empathy. In other words, by looking at the world from the perspective of other people, you would not only be able to spot all the world has to offer, but you will no longer be operating out of desperation and things become easier for you.